Monday, October 8, 2012

Time to Change the Conversation About Body Image

The fashion world appears to have come to the decision that being healthy is in. However, calls to action against unrealistic depictions of models and celebrities in fashion publications and other media have yielded few results. Publishing a few articles, about the deadliness of eating disorders, will not thwart dangerous habits.This is because the crux of the problem lies with flawed mentalities that have spanned generations. The body image discussion needs to be steered toward changing fundamental attitudes. As long as people are identified by the size of their bodies, this issue will never go away.

Currently, it is second nature to casually make a comment about a person's weight. Terms such as "fat" and "skinny" are thrown around with no regard to what they actually mean. For instance, "Do you know Darcy? No? Dark hair? A bit on the chubby side?" is a perfectly acceptable way to begin a conversation about a woman. This creates divisions among women and places them in competition against one another. Then, as a defense mechanism, they will make snide remarks about others who do not look like them. It is a never-ending toxic cycle that has been going on for decades. Men also have issues with body image but women are 10 times more likely than men to have an eating disorder.

"Big is beautiful" or "Curves are sexy" are some of the popular taglines used in conjunction with initiatives to improve self-image. But while these campaigns mean well, they are not the solution. They will only lead to a new mentality where skinny women are the enemy. Criticizing thinner women will only cause more strife. Some women will not gain an ounce no matter how much they eat while others cannot lose weight even if they starve themselves. Instead of endorsing a certain body type, such campaigns should promote healthy eating and exercise. The message should be that all body types are beautiful.

Those positive messages would be a start. However, change will only occur if, as stated earlier, comments about body weight are not casually strewn about in conversation. Calling someone a "fat cow" or saying "she needs to eat a hamburger" are phrases that are all too common. This is a form of bullying and should not be done - even in jest. Furthermore, descriptive profanity words should never be tolerated. There is no need to call someone a skinny b---- or a fat a--. Words are powerful and they resonate with people.

The fashion industry has influence over television, movies, magazine, music etc. Therefore, it has the ability to revolutionize the way our society views beauty. Earlier this year, Vogue announced that 19 editors have formed a pact to not work with models "who appear to have an eating disorder". They will also not feature models under 16 years of age. That is a small step toward the right direction but it is not enough. Other measures need to be made to ensure that change will happen. Fashion designers should stop making sample sizes of prom dresses and other special events smaller because doing so pressures models to become thinner. They need to stop thinking of models as mere hangers for their designs. Fashion magazines should stop airbrushing models and celebrities to make them look doll-like. With increasing technology, this practice has become a regular occurrence even though it is blatantly obvious. Cover stars are sometimes missing a hip or a shoulder because someone was overly eager with the mouse. Maybe magazine editors do not care if the airbrushing is apparent because it is expected. However, these fake images have a negative impact on women. Although many know that the images are false representations of a real woman, the subsequent comparison is instinctual and unavoidable. The American Medical Association said as much when it asked advertisers to curb body enhancing practices because they help cause "mental and eating disorders".

Women begin comparing themselves to others at a young age. It starts with the dolls they play with at a young age. Typically, dolls have an hourglass figure with a tiny waist and disproportionately large breasts. After that, young girls are continually exposed to the aforementioned false images of women. Meanwhile, their appearances are constantly being judged by their peers. Children need to be taught at a young age that they should not judge or refer to others by their size. There is hope for the future since younger generations are being proactive about this issue. Recently, 14-year-old Julia Bluhm's online campaign and demonstrations pushed Seventeen magazine to form the Body Peace Treaty. This treaty states that the magazine will never change body shapes or faces and will only feature healthy models. This is just one instance where young people are rising to fight against the unreasonable expectations set forth by society. Whether it be the style of designer dresses worn by celebrities on the red carpet, or the unhealthy habits often considered the norm in our culture -- it is easy for teens and adolescents to get the wrong idea about body, self-image, and confidence.

Altering the zeitgeist of a society will be a battle. But it is not impossible. Imagine a world where a person's body size does not enter the conversation. Where women are not trying the latest master cleanse or miracle diet pill to lose weight. A world where they feel comfortable in their own bodies because people are not making snide remarks about them. There is no preference for a certain body type in that world so young girls will not have distorted views on body image. The fashion world continually launches new trends and stirs established conventions. It has the authority to make this dream world a reality.



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Friday, October 5, 2012

Simple But Useful Clothing and Fashion Tips

I realized that a lot of people have trouble with dressing up. That is why I have decided to share some tips with you. I hope you will learn something useful in this article.

Don't Be Cheap

This tip is for people who are not willing to spend more money on new clothes. Believe it or not, your appearance can make or break you. It can determine whether you will get the next promotion. It can determine whether you will be able to attract that dream girl or dream guy.

So don't be too cheap when it comes to buying clothes. Nobody is asking you to spend like a millionaire. You can get good deals if you are willing to spend the time and effort to search for them.

Don't Be Too Extravagant

Yes, you should not be cheap. But you don't want to be too extravagant as well. Spend within your means. You don't have to go broke by always following the latest fashion. More often than not, it is okay to be one or two steps behind the latest fashion because most people are not in the fashion industry anyway.

You Do Not Have To Know Everything - Just Ask For Help

No one is an expert in everything. It is alright to be ignorant about fashion or dressing up in general. Therefore the best way around this issue is to ask for help. I am sure you have friends who can help you out in this area.

You do not have to seek out the number one expert in the fashion industry. Just seek the advice of friends who know how to dress appropriately. They will be able to pick the best clothes for you and help you improve your overall appearance.

Be Confident and Learn How to Smile

Your appearance is not all about what you wear. An aura of confidence and a genuine smile can greatly enhance your outlook. Let us put it this way. You can dress a little bit shabbily but if you have an aura of confidence and a genuine smile, people will still forgive you for your dressing.

If In Doubt Choose Black

There are so many colors and this can cause a lot of confusion especially for those who are usually indecisive. Therefore, if you do not know what color to go for, black is probably the best option.

Don't Wear Black All The Time

Although I have mentioned above that black is usually the best color, you should not be wearing black all the time. Why? Because black is considered an unfriendly color! Therefore, if you are meeting a client and you want to portray a friendly attitude, it is advisable to choose a brighter color. For example, grey is probably a better color than black in this type of situation.



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How to Find the Best Salon and Hairdresser for You

Just because one of your friends brags about her hairdresser does not automatically mean you will also receive the same great results with her hairdresser. There are a number of factors you need to consider when you are finding the best hairdresser and salon for you. It requires you to further learn about things such as specialities, service price points, and your overall rapport with the hairdresser of the salon. Also, if you do your homework, you are more likely to have a great salon experience.

1. If someone refers a hair salon to you, you need to compare hair types before you take the recommendation. If your friend has kinky curls and you have straight hair, you might not be saying the same praises after her hairdresser do your hair. Before you make an appointment, always check if a hair salon has specific specialities. If your hair is dry and frizzy, look for a hair salon that makes use of mild products. One of the great ways to have the best results you always wanted is to look for a salon that specifically caters to your hair type.

2. You would probably need to make an appointment a few months in advance if you are going for the best and top hair salon in the city. The best one with the best service costs hundreds of dollars for a haircut alone. There is totally nothing wrong about going to such high-end salon as long as you are able to pay for the services, but if you are on a smaller budget, you might need to look for a salon you can afford and still get satisfying results. You can ask people in order to check on prices. However, higher price does not necessary mean better hairdresser. Usually with high-end hair salons, you pay much more for the facilities than you do for the actual hair service. A mid-priced hair salon you could afford is ideal for feeling convenient on a tighter budget.

3. You must be comfortable with your hairdresser. Without an easy feeling between the two of you, it may be tough for you to get the color, style, or cut that you like. Hairdressers can be intimidating at times, so find the one you can be comfortable giving instructions to. Being frank and direct with your hairdresser means you will not have problem elaborating what you really want and even requesting for some changes when you did not like a certain style. If you have a not-so good experience with a hairdresser, just keep looking until you find the right one who could meet your needs and expectations.

4. If you are not able to find the right salon and hairdresser for you, after following the above mentioned tips, you may want to consider looking for a great hairdresser online. This way, you can save a lot of time and not have to drive from one salon to another in search for the right one for you.



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Religion and Culture Towards Women Ignored Today

In today's world, girls and women everywhere struggle with their identity, character, and personality while trying to find their way through their belief system. Some are affected by their choice of belief system at their schools, work, and their community. The females that are mostly affected are young girls. Today, this is a subject that is ignored in the school systems.

We all have the right to choose our own belief system. But, when we do we should not be judged or penalized for it when we are in society. Most younger females that are apart of a religious background are not sure how to apply their moral psychological characteristics. This happens because in schools today, students do not respect and accept each other. Most do not because in their home, they are taught to only socialize with certain people or that some people are beneath them. Other students that live in a lower class community would take their aggressions from home, bring their home issues to school while challenging and lashing out physically on students that do not have the same "like status" as them. While at school they find a way to continuously interrupt the religious students day negatively. They feel this is a way to become popular and happier by bullying and picking on other students. This causes the religious student to become one or more of the following: rebellious, rebellious toward religion, sad, depressed, have identity issues, become mute, self destruction, loneliness,or have other abnormal psychological disorders.

To have an understanding of what to expect in society today about different groups of people, most students do not have someone at home whom can explain to them in a way whereas they understand. All schools have social workers that are available to assist students that have special needs or students per request. What about the students that are visibly religious and the students that are not? Although, religion is forbidden in the school system I believe there should be a "Real Perspective" class for all students in every school district. This particular class would be geared towards today's crossroads of social interaction and cultural groups. These classes would provide religious students and students that are not with a better understanding of what acceptance means, how to respect other's choices, have a understanding of other cultures and religious groups in society, and teach them how to become independent of their own choices while having confidence in their own identity. Students will then have the choice to become stronger and be able to make better choices while growing into an adult. The "Real Perspective" class would also lessen the percentage of trouble making students, fights at schools, detentions, and suspensions.

In the past, I too went through similar situations as the young girls today. I was born and raised on the westside of Chicago. While living with parents, my siblings and I lived a religious life. Our religion brought us joy, but at the same time it brought about many questions. Some of the questions are questions students and other women have had for many years. Questions such as: who am I? Who am I representing? Why people don't accept you for who you are? Why some parents chose a certain belief system? Why does it affect us in society?

When a child or teen is emotionally, mentally, or physically hurt it becomes a personal issue for all. Unfortunately, when it comes to culture or religion it is not taken into perspective today in the school systems. My heart goes out to girls and women that have gone through or is experiencing this today. I will try my best to connect with girls and women everyone by using strategies that will provide them hope, laughter, self assurance, growth, happiness, motivation, self sufficiency, confidence, encouragement, inspiration, love, and strength.

Today, I am not religious, but I have a strong belief system of faith and prayer. Because of the confusion of society and religion I experienced growing as a female in the 90's, I lived a life of misunderstanding which later led me to being poor for quite some time. Today, I am an author, co-founder of a non-profit family and youth outreach ministry, motivational speaker, entrepreneur, marriage and family counselor, youth counselor, legal advocate, and has a Masters Degree in Higher Education. Soon, I will have my Doctoral Degree in Philosophy.

I am thankful for the teachings my parent's have taught me. What sticks out the most is prayer and family. There is certainly nothing like the power of love and togetherness. If they didn't teach me these resourceful tools of life, I would not have known how to teach my children and others to become socially involved by using the power of faith in society. Today, I am also humbly grateful!



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Tuesday, October 2, 2012

Picking The Right Party Women's Dresses That Best Fit Your Personality

If you have received an invitation to a special event or party, then the first thing that will surely come to your mind is what style, color or design of party dress to wear. Nowadays, there are plenty of choices available for you to choose from depending on your choice of brand, personal style and body figure. So to help you choose the perfect dress that best fits your individual style, here are some of the things you need to consider.

Determine the Theme of the Party

Of course, it is relatively crucial to consider the actual theme of the party before searching for suitable attire. If the party or event requires dress code, then this calls for you to look for stunning womens dresses that will surely make you the center of attraction (in a good way). If for example you are attending tea parties, then casual, modest dresses will do. But if you are going to dance parties, it is often advisable to wear something with bright, brilliant colors. Cocktail parties, on the other hand, generally call for short, gleaming dresses.

Consider Your Personal Style

Another essential factor to consider when picking for the right party dress is your personality. Hence to find the attire that suits you best, you can flip through some magazines or visit some websites that provide information on recent fashion trends. Today, there are lots of online fashion stores that sell hottest party dresses for men and women alike. In case you are not sure of what exactly suits you best, you can also consult some of your friends or family. If you have the budget, then you may also get some professional advice from the experts.

Know What Dress Fits Your Body Shape

This is perhaps the common mistake done by many women when choosing party dresses. Aside from your personality, it is also important to take into account the shape of your body. Keep in mind that picking the right womens dresses for your particular body shape will not only help you look good, but also make you feel good about yourself. The primary idea here is to wear something that will bring out the best in you, and not only because it is the latest fashion trend. As Jean-Paul Gaultier quoted, "Elegance is a question of personality, more than one's clothing." So before you rush to the nearest designer clothes shop or set your order in an online fashion store, make sure to take your measurements first.

Find the Right Fabric and Color

Color and fabric of the dress can make a huge difference on the way you look. Ideally, you must choose a color of dress that matches your skin complexion. You must never attempt to match the color of your dress with the color of your shoes for this is often considered tacky. Like colors, fabrics are important too. Some of the best fabrics for party dresses are satin and silk.

Indeed, it could be very frustrating to find the most appropriate womens dresses for special parties or events. Thus, it is highly recommended to get professional advice and to always consider your individual styles when searching for this clothing. With these tips in mind, you will definitely have tons of confidence as you come to any types of parties.



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Monday, October 1, 2012

Choosing the Correct Lift Bra

Like it or not the breast will sag in time or after serving its purpose; sometimes slowly, other times more quickly, particularly the larger ones. It is, after all, made of tissue mostly and less muscles so you cannot tone it by exercising like you do your biceps or abdominals. Through constant pull by gravity ---weight-the skin of the upper part will in time stretch and the breast will sag. Other reasons are pregnancy, since when the breast is full of milk the skin stretches to accommodate the growth, and rarely returns to its original size.

Breastfeeding and menopause are two more reasons breast sag.

For a sagging breast or whatever reason, the answer is a lift bra. It differs from a push up bra in that the latter simply pushes against the breast tissue to create a more pronounced cleavage, while the lift bra raises the whole breast up and forward, at the same time supporting it for comfort and shape. Thus the breast will appear more perky and upright, and therefore younger-looking in shape and appearance. The end-result is that the lift bra wearer feels more confident and feminine over-all.

However, many women and stores think of push-up bras when you mention or ask about lift bras since the two very similar in form and function.

But what consists of a good lift bra? That is actually a question individual to the woman who wants one. Every designer and manufacturer has his own idea of what a good lift bra should be or have though they agree on what it should do, but any woman instinctively knows what she must have, informed or otherwise. It actually depends on the breast needing the bra.

Some women have breasts that are rather rounder topside that may simply need a full-figure lift bra to prevent the breast from jiggling and juggling. Other women are fuller bottomside and thus may require just padding to lift the breast. Still others have side-pointing nipples so would need bras that push the breast inwards and up, while there are women whose breasts are rather small and pointy for which an altogether design may be necessary.

To further complicate matters, whatever type of lift bra is chosen, it will be worn as long as 15 or more hours a day, so if it is uncomfortable in the first few hours such discomfort will increase as the day goes on. And, of course, there is the bra to wear on special occasions such as formal gatherings or social parties. The lift bra you use at your everyday work would not be appropriate for such kind of events so you would need a different bra but of virtually the same specifics as to sizes but of different fabric and styling.

So in selecting your lift bra, be sure of several things:
1) it is comfortable to wear;
2) it gives you the necessary lift and support;
3) it is appropriate to the occasion you plan to use it in; and
4) you can afford it.



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Shopping For A Good Cause

In today's economic state, there are always excuses to be made for wanting to go shopping. Though the people around us may have minor concerns about our spending habits, their judgment isn't really what bothers us; it's our own. We can all feel a bit embarrassed for spending money on things we don't really need. Luckily, there are a few ways to avoid, or at the very least ease, the shame or guilty associated with frivolous spending. Consider investing your hard earned money into products that donate a portion of their sales to charitable causes. That way, a little splurging feels, not only harmless but also quite helpful.

MAC Cosmetics

The MAC AIDS Fund has been around since 1994, donating money to support services and programs that help to prevent HIV and AIDS. The VIVA GLAM campaign associated with the MAC AIDS Fund promotes a line of lip care products through the help of celebrities. Famous spokespeople endorsing the campaign have included Mary J. Blige, Lil' Kim, Elton John and more recently, Ricky Martin and Nicky Minaj. MAC donates 100% of the money made from the VIVA GLAM lip line to assist in HIV and AIDS prevention.

Tom's

Friends of Tom's is a non-profit subsidiary of the Tom's shoe company that donates a pair of shoes to a person in need whenever a pair is sold. The founder, Blake Mycoskie, got the idea after visiting Argentina and wearing the traditional alpargata design. The driving force behind his philanthropic services is a soil-transmitted disease called Podoconiosis. The company's contributions can help to prevent the disease, providing a better quality of life for people living in poorer areas. To date, the company has donated over one million shoes and has now begun selling other products such as eyewear, which they too donate.

Rachel Roy

Rachel Roy puts her design skills to good use by creating collections that support victims of natural disasters. Proceeds of the sales also go to children's organizations. Totes were especially designed to support the victims of Japan's Tsunami and Pakistan's monsoon flooding. A clutch was made to support education in Ghana. All the proceeds from her collections are donated to relief funds. In addition to this, Roy also sells jewelry designed and crafted by Haitian natives, helping to promote jobs for artisans.

J.Crew

J.Crew, in partnership with Intiq, have begun to sell Mochila bags in an effort to preserve indigenous cultures. Each bag is handcrafted and designed by the South American women of the Wayuu tribe. They use traditional weaving techniques that have been passed down through many generations resulting in a one of a kind bag created over the course of a few days. The time and labor involved in the bag making process contribute to the hefty price, but considering that it's completely unique and supports the preservation of local customs, I'd say it's worth it. The sale of each bag also helps to raise money for the women who make them and their communities.



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