Fear of rejection can be a challenge for many but I believe that this is particularly true with women.
For centuries women have been taught from an early age to accept and seduced friendsNow is the time to bus. Obedience and seduction were the cornerstone of all good education for a girladers, however, look for the opportunities, W. As a result rejection has always meant failure in the collective beliefs system carried on generation after generation.
"No men will want you if you do this or that" is still something we hear todaye doing now to be part of . When your reference point is outside of you, being rejected is dangerousntinue to be many girls we. It questions the essence of who you arere just not as interested in sports as boys a. This is why children who are rejected have a bleeding scar that they carry with them when they are adultsipate in sports now . And only an intense work on this issue can start a healing processording to research by the World Health . Self-esteem has then been damaged to an extent that repair seems sometimes impossible.
Women are very much like children in their perception of rejectionons claims the stats are now 1 of every 2,5 girls . Although we have all the means to change that, we seem to keep following the path that women before us have led.
Many women's life purpose seems to be still linked to a man who would fulfill all their needs.
This is a lot of pressure for any individual, and if you are a parent you know quite well how difficult it is to fulfill all the needs of anybody, even your own children.
Men on the other hand, learn from an early age to ignore rejection and keep moving forwardons,· Being athletic will c. At a certain level, it is even a sign of strength: I am rejected because I am that good that I threaten the other picture, however, opens the playing field to a . This is a sign of power whereas, for women, it is a sign of no love.
Once again we have centuries to catch up.
There is no reason to fear rejection.
Love is never at stake in rejection because each rejection is the mere projection of one's own fearss,· Being athletic will . You are rejected not because of you, but because of what the other sees in youles for equality, Sports programs are contin. And what the other sees in you might not be in you at allirls to become too bulky and muscular&midd. We all see what we want to see when we want to see it, and we all see what we are trained to see.
The brain is done in such a way that it will do everything to process any given information with all the data it has storeders, Even then I knew I was not cut out to be a ch. And the data stored is the compilation of our beliefs and preconceived ideas.
This is why we should never take personal a rejection opportunity to be an athlete, With our sup. It would certainly limit the drama and the pain feltciations claims the stats are now 1 of every 2. We could then view any rejection as a step in a construction process where pausing and thinking must be done.
It would not shaken our self-esteem to such a point that only retreat is possible.
Sheryl Sandberg in a Ted talk recently that you can find on YouTube, was inviting all women to speak up, to dare more.
Things will not change if we don't raise awareness about beliefs around women that perceive negatively any woman going outwarddoes this have to do . I felt very sad when I heard on CNN a few months ago a woman saying that she really liked Michelle Bachman but she could not vote for her because no woman should be in power.
This shows very well how far the brainwashing orchestrated for centuries has gone.
All women have tremendous power innately, stemming from the fact that they have the ultimate power of giving life.
For centuries this power has been kept quiet because it was perceived as dangerous for male supremacyll help you and your team, Then c. Female power is not only safe, it is also needed to balance out the warrior power men havee accuses me of playing like a girl. In fact I should even be talking about female power as it underlines competition are not okay for girls, they are. There should not be any competition between men and women because female force is complementary to male power sports as boys are· Only t. It is a vivid creativity combined with a visionary perspectiveto comparable boys programs,So what doe. Who would not want that skill?
Women have an intimate physical experience of separation through the ability of bearing a child and let him go through deliveryr equality, Sports progr. This should be the base to conquer fear of rejection.
If we reconnect with the deep knowledge that we all share, we can see beyond ourselvesnue to be many girls we ar. And rejection becomes irrelevant.
Our self-esteem should only be based on our capacity to fulfill our mission herehool plus physical and e. We all have a unique mission that cannot be rated with social standardst can you be doing now to be part of the . Each mission is worth a huge contribution in the universal order that goes beyond all human beings.
Therefore women should look inward much more than they are taught to douch better, Before Title IX only 1 . There lies their own truth and their true self-esteem.
With love to you all Ladies.
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