Man of Your Dreams

I have recurring dreams that I am in an awesome relationship with the man of my dreams, we are walking on the beach together, enjoying the romantic sunset, having an awesome dinner together, or just cuddling up with each other on a rainy afternoon, only to wake up to find I am still single and searching for that "dream" guy.

Love is like learning to play an instrument, first we take lessons to learn how to play the instrument, then we practice, practice, practice, but in the end we must play from our heart in order to touch another persons soul.

Love is one of the best feelings in life. You should complete each others lives and want to be better for each other. As long as you know how to keep each other happy you will be in for a long and lasting relationship for life. Expressing your love and respect for each other makes the bond between the two of you so much stronger. I saw this love and respect from my parents who were married for 60 years and would still be married if my Dad had not died a few years ago. My parents were such models and I always wanted to have a loving relationship like they did. I never heard them say a harsh word to each other. They always shared a kiss goodbye and a hello kiss.

I have been in and out of relationships all my life, was married once, only to find out I chose the wrong type of guy for me. He was outgoing and he never met anyone he didn't know. Although, I felt he was my knight in shining armor, I didn't peel off the armor to find what was really down deep inside him. He had a lot of demons hidden deep inside. I feel my lack of experience and being very young attributed to not finding out more about him before we got married. You know that old hind sight will bite you in the behind every time.

Do you feel you attract the wrong kind of men. What are you looking for in a man? Attributes I am looking for in a man: sense of humor, fun loving, caring, loving, thoughtful, passionate, sweet, romantic, has a close and caring relationship with his mother, does not make any less money than I make, family oriented, able to fix things around the house, self motivator, likes to travel, likes to dance, enjoys wine, enjoys walks on the ocean, enjoys watching sunsets, going out to nice dinners, likes staying at home and cuddling in front of the fireplace watching movies, is not jealous, accepts me for who I am, enjoys being around my family. I have also discovered that I must be the same type of person that I want to attract into my life, so I must also make some changes to be a quality person so I attract a quality person. I have a big fear of being alone the rest of my life, and want a companion to grow old with.

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