Successful women are something to behold! Because you have to know that she has suffered. I know several women that are highly successful and there are several things that they have in common.
One is they don't think of themselves as just being a woman, what I mean by that is, they don't put limitations on themselves, "I'm weaker than a man", "I'm not as smart as a man" "I can't do what a man does". Duh, of course we don't have the physical strength of a man, but where is it written that we don't have the same brain capacity?
Some will say the Bible, but have never been able to show me the verse, Jesus valued women very much, so let's not make any excuses for using our brain.Successful women realize that they can achieve anything that they put their mind to.
I have a friend that wanted to leave the corporate world and start her own cake business from home, her family and friends told her she was crazy, but she was tired of the daily commute, stress and living for the weekend, she wanted more quality time for herself and her family, so she quit her nice cushy joy and worked out of her kitchen for six months then opened a shop, she made her first million in two years, she took a chance on her dream, notice (she took a chance), she did not let what others thought stop her.
Another friend is a person I truly admire,because she had to start all over again with nothing at the age of 61, she did not know what she was going to do but she did not want to end up begging or going on welfare. She loves writing, and though she had never written anything professional she had written poetry over the years for her own pleasure, and been told by many that her poems were strong just like her personality, so she became a successful writer!
So what is the principle here? Believe in yourself. Every successful woman believes in herself. Having the right attitude is everything if you want to live life on your terms and not someones else's. Are you willing to be different? Most women are just fine, working the nine to five and most of your friends may tell you, that you have a great job so why rock the boat? You have to make a stand for yourself.
Another quality that a successful woman has is she competes with herself not others, she does not compare herself to another person because she knows that there is always someone doing it better, that's just a fact of life. She challenges herself to do better at whatever she's good at. She does not blame others for her failures, when she fails, she thinks it over. She ask herself questions, "what could I have done better"? is one of the major one's, it is never because of what someone else did, she knows that she is in charge of the things that go on in her life. She is not a complainer. She is too busy creating a her life. She knows that to complain is a downer, negative, she wants no part of that.
A successful woman is not overly critical of herself or others, she knows where to draw the line when having to counsel someone else or critique herself, it's not for tearing down but to transform to a higher level. She never gossips about others, if she can't say it to the person face to face, she keeps her mouth shut. If she makes a promise and finds that it is going to inconvenience her to keep the promise, she keeps it anyway (if she can).
A successful woman is never petty, her mindset is expansive, she truly believes that there is enough abundance in life for all to share and when another woman is successful, she is happy for her, and even better than that, if there is anything that she can do to help the other woman be even more successful, the she is willing to help. When she succeeds, she reaches out with a helping hand, to help others up, mentally, physically, and materially. She is happy when others are happy. To truly succeed in her eyes is to first, take care of her health, in all areas of her life, she knows that she can not really be of benefit to anyone if she is not in good shape herself. This woman is the kind of person that knows when to rest, and when to keep on. How about you?
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